Parents want their children to experience an important rite of childhood — camp.
Smart moms and dads know that through experiences with nature, authentic relationships, and participation in human-powered activities, children develop independence, a sense of self-worth, and a greater understanding of the world around them. Simply put, camp changes lives.
However, parents of first-time campers may be unsure of how to mentally prepare for this exciting adventure.
The American Camp Association (ACA) suggests keeping the following in mind as you begin to prepare your children, and yourself, for camp:
Focus on education
Camp provides an opportunity for children to explore a much larger world.
It also offers parents and kids a chance to practice normal, healthy separation, which allows children to develop autonomy and a stronger sense of self, make new friends, develop new social skills, learn about teamwork, and so much more.
Share the prep work
Camp decisions, like what to pack, should be made together. When children feel that they are part of the decision-making process, they are more comfortable.
Talk, talk, talk
It is only natural that, as the first day of camp approaches, some children may experience uneasiness about going away.
Encourage your child to talk about these feelings.
Parents should let their child know that they are confident in the child’s ability to handle being away from home.
Remind the child of other times they have been away from home successfully — sleepovers with friends or family, etc.
Get real
It’s important for children and parents to maintain realistic expectations. Camp is a microcosm of the real world, so, just like life, there will be highs and lows.
Parents should encourage realistic views of what camp will be like, discussing both the high points and the low points children may experience. Remind children that the most important thing is to relax and have fun at camp.
For 100 years, the American Camp Association has been serving the camp community and families considering camp. Please visit the ACA-NY family resource Web site www.campwizard.org to find a camp database for the New York area or call (800) 777-CAMP. ACA-Accredited camp programs ensure that children are provided with a diversity of educational and developmentally challenging learning opportunities.
