If a cruise is not for you or if you, have to fly to a port of departure, here are eight tips from family travel expert and author Eileen Ogintz regarding journeys with a child that is on the autism spectrum or has special needs:
1. Preparation is the best defense. Call ahead and inform the airline, hotel, resort, and cruise line of your child’s condition and ask what special accommodations are available. Ask if you need a fridge, inside room, etc. Bring your child’s own sheets, if you think that will make him more comfortable.
2. Select an environment your child can handle.
3. Talk online with other parents who have been there, done that. Simply Google the destination and “kids with autism” and you likely can connect with a local parent’s group.
4. Book low season on a cruise or at a resort like Club Med, so there will be fewer children and the staff will have more time to devote to yours.
5. Travel by car if you think flying will be too difficult. Opt to stay some place where you can eat some of your meals in your room.
6. Be forthright explaining the situation to those you meet.
7. Develop “social stories” complete with pictures that explain to your child exactly what you will be doing and where you are going.
8. Whatever happens, stay calm.
© 2008 Eileen Ogintz. Distributed By Tribune Media Services, Inc. www.takingthekids.com/weekly-column/taking-the-kids-when-they-have-autism
